Fostering a learning environment with a simple message – The Oxford Eagle

By Les Ferguson, Jr.

Journalist

Three different graduates spoke for a few minutes at my youngest son’s recent high school graduation ceremony. There were the usual salutation and valedictorian speeches, plus one more towards the close of the ceremony. It was a thoughtful commemoration of achievements that recognized this rite of passage.

I don’t remember which speaker it was, but one of them took me back to school, put me in my chair and delivered a wise message that I needed to hear. It was incredibly well thought out.

I admit that most parents of high school graduates have been around for a while. But I suspect I was the oldest parent of a graduate there. Seriously, I’m running with the crowd of almost and barely retired people. I have lived a fruitful life so far and I hope it continues for many years to come.

I would also like to think that in addition to longevity, I am well educated and well adjusted. I can continue to serve and mentor, especially to people younger than me.

But that night? This message ? As I mentioned before, I was taken to class and schooled. I learned at least two things. One was the message itself. The other was a much-needed reminder that I can learn from anyone, at any age. Indeed, wisdom is not the exclusive prerogative of the oldest.

And the message I heard (and immediately wrote down) was simple and quite profound:

Arrive.

Pay attention.

To ask questions.

Never give up.

These are words of wisdom for new graduates heading off to school, entering a career, or enlisting in the military. Some of us graduated years ago and the message is still extremely insightful for our work, our learning and our life itself.

The preacher in me can’t help but apply: what a difference it would make if we approached our marriages, our families, our churches, and our communities with this simple message of wisdom.

Arrive.

Pay attention.

To ask questions.

Never give up.

I have high hopes for our future, especially when we consider the wisdom we have received.

As the apostle Paul tells us: “Therefore be careful how you walk, not as foolish people, but as wise, making the most of the time, for the days are evil. » (Ephesians 5:15-16 CSB)