Selena Gomez was ready to adopt at 35 before Benny Blanco came along

The singer spoke about it with Time magazine – where she explained that she had gotten used to being alone…this after being single for over five years, and coming to terms with the fact that she might have to parent on her own.

Because of this possibility… SG admits that she was ready to bring a child into her life, even though she didn’t have a man to do it with. She even had a timetable for it… 35 years.

She says: “I was alone for five years and I really got used to it. A lot of people are afraid of being alone and I probably racked my brain for about two years being alone and then I ‘I kind of agreed.’Then I made my plan: I was going to adopt at 35 if I hadn’t met anyone. “

Then… along came Benny, and now Selena is rethinking things – including whether she’ll have kids with him. We know he wants children …he said it very clearly in “Stern”.

Selena acknowledged the fact that Benny is so open and wears his heart on his sleeve – noting that she’s not really like that herself, saying… “I know what people can do to the people I love. My own fans, who I adore and feel have shaped who I am, will tell me the most hurtful things about the way I live my life.

She adds, “But he has the strength within him that none of these noises bother him. It’s really impressive, and I cherish every moment with him.”

As for where things will go with BB, Selena says time will tell… but has this to say about herself: “I don’t know what the future holds, but I know it not going anywhere anytime soon.”