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I’ve Caught Thousands of Unfaithful Men – Here Are 8 Signs Your Guy Is Cheating on You

I’ve Caught Thousands of Unfaithful Men – Here Are 8 Signs Your Guy Is Cheating on You

She’s getting B’s with honey – “B’s” as in idiots.

Cheaters never prosper. And that saying is especially true when professional “honey hunter” Madeline Smith is the bait.

But when the vixen isn’t busy testing the loyalty of men won over at the behest of their shady partners, she’s sharing tips and tricks on how to spot the telltale signs that a guy is up to no good.

Madeline Smith helps women reveal the truth about their men’s loyalty by sending sexy messages and photos online. Courtesy of Madeline Smith/SWNS

“Make no mistake ladies,” Smith, from Los Angeles, wrote in the caption of a TikTok trend. “There is NOTHING wrong with taking concrete steps to protect your heart.”

And unfortunately, in today’s digital age, opportunities to cheat on someone important are just a few clicks away.

Women took to social media, revealing their sophisticated tricks for catching cheaters in the act. terovesalainen – stock.adobe.com
Smith’s raunchy texts and photos often lure unfaithful men into her social media trap. Courtesy of Madeline Smith/SWNS

But Smith, a siren who makes a living sending flirty messages to off-market men, assures that curious wives and girlfriends don’t need to be computer savvy to point fingers at their guys for being unfaithful.

Instead, the mischievous know-it-all suggests women keep an eye out for any of the following eight major red flags.

He hides his phone

“When you go out to dinner or are just on the couch watching TV, does your man leave his phone facing up or down?” Smith asked in a Daily Mail column. “It may seem trivial, but ask yourself – what could come up that he doesn’t want anyone to see?”

“I think it’s bullshit when people say phones should be private,” she continued. “You can be whoever you want to be online (trust me, I would know) and you should recognize that your partner may feel insecure about your online activities.”

Smith insists that innocent guys don’t hide their devices.

“If you have nothing to hide, why should you care?” she wrote. “It meant a lot to me that my fiance felt comfortable sharing his password.”

Smith warns that men who are curiously cautious about sharing their phone passwords often engage in inappropriate behavior. Kaspars Grinvalds – stock.adobe.com

And while a man “can’t control” whether a woman decides to text him, “he can control her reaction,” she said.

“Let’s look at one of my ‘failed’ experiments,” Smith said. “A client asked me to test her husband and he politely informed me that he was happily married. When I told her the good news, she said he had already shown her the conversation.

“Guys, it’s that simple: transparency, always.”

You’re not in his photos

“With my pregnant client, it was an immediate red flag that there were no photos of her on her Instagram profile,” warned Smith. “Even if he claims he never posts on social media, you should at least appear in his profile picture.

“Your partner should be proud to show you off,” said the sex expert. “If it’s not there, it signals a lack of commitment.”

He uses Snapchat

Smith is skeptical of anyone using “Chat.”

“There is no good reason for any man past school age to have Snapchat on his phone,” she wrote. “SnapChat – with its USP that it deletes messages once viewed – is an app for cheaters.”

“I have only met adult men who use it to send and receive explicit photographs,” warned Smith. “Whatever his explanation, if he is a normal Snapper, be very careful.”

The infidelity expert says most adult men who use children’s apps like Snapchat are probably up to naughty pranks. SHOTPRIME STUDIO – stock.adobe.com

Will not show location

“These days, it’s normal to have loved ones on location-sharing apps,” Smith noted. “One of the warning signs I hear often is, ‘My husband’s location always seems to turn off without explanation.’”

But the pro-pinup doesn’t believe that.

“Cheaters make up some excuse for not wanting to share their location, but then insist their girlfriend shares theirs,” Smith groaned. “Which brings me to my next red flag…”

Unequal expectations

Smith says men shouldn’t impose relationship rules they aren’t following. LIGHTFIELD STUDIOS – stock.adobe.com

“Cheaters are jealous people with fragile egos,” she said. “That’s almost always why they cheat: the validation of a woman’s love is never enough for them.”

Smith urges women not to fall into the one-sided trap of irrational rules.

“My clients often report that their partner expects them to have unrealistic boundaries with men: cutting off male friends, even not speaking to male colleagues,” she told the Daily Mail. “Meanwhile, he’s posting photos of himself with stunning women in bikinis who are ‘just friends’.”

He accuses you of cheatinging

Smith advises women to remain firm in the suspicion that their boyfriend is a philanderer. Andrey Popov – stock.adobe.com

“Does your partner call you ‘crazy’ or claim you’re ‘just being insecure’ if you raise concerns?” she questioned. “Does he accuse you of being unfaithful for no obvious reason?

“This gaslighting behavior is not only designed to be demeaning,” Smith wrote, “(but) it is also highly revealing.”

Her lesson: He is “projecting” his own cheating guilt onto you.

“In a loving relationship, the response to concerns raised should be shock and gentle affirmation,” Smith said.

“Think, ‘Oh my God, I would never do that to you,’” the eyes encouraged. “No, ‘Are you crazy? I can’t deal with your insecurity right now.’”

Intuition is the key

“Women are more emotionally intelligent than men,” Smith said. “But we are also masters at convincing ourselves that strange behavior must have an innocent explanation – when every bone in our body screams otherwise.”

Instead of rationalizing a man’s weirdness, “trust your intuition,” Smith said.

“Almost every message I get is from women saying something just doesn’t feel right, and unfortunately, they’re usually right,” she revealed. “When in doubt, give him a call – or hire the services of someone like me!”

Emotional distancing

“Does your partner seem disinterested during conversations?” Smith asked. “Has his compliments stopped? Did he use to touch you a lot and doesn’t anymore?

If any of these questions generate a “yes,” the two-stroke human detector wants women to be careful.

“That kind of emotional detachment is one of the biggest red flags.”

Delete the cheat

Even without Smith’s help, some cyber detectives are becoming adept at sniffing out dogs.

Abby Paige, a digital content creator, messed with her Wi-Fi settings to catch her partner hanging out with other women on the world wide web earlier this year.

And Liesel, a Gen Z from Missouri, learned the truth about her darling’s infidelity while innocently browsing social media.

The brunette accidentally discovered her ex’s crimes after stumbling upon another woman’s “Get Ready With Me” TikTok clip.

In the video, the other girl was getting ready for a hot date – at Liesel’s friend’s house.