Tribute: Anthology and devotion to the women of the waiting room

Welcome to this special edition of Listen Linda Speaks, where we take a moment to honor and celebrate the remarkable women of the Waiting Room anthology and devotional. As the visionary behind this powerful project, I am deeply moved by the stories shared by these extraordinary women, and I am honored to share their journey with you. In this article, we will not only celebrate their strength and resilience, but we will also delve into the profound impact of mother figures in our lives. Additionally, I want to pay a heartfelt tribute to my own mother, Marvella Elaine Everett, whom I affectionately call Chyna. Despite her personal struggles, my love for her remains unwavering and I will be forever grateful for the lessons she taught me.

To truly appreciate the importance of motherhood, let’s explore the question: Should we limit our appreciation for mothers to a single day, or should we extend it to an entire month?

The importance of Mother’s Day

Mother’s Day, celebrated on the second Sunday in May, has been a treasured event for generations. It is a day dedicated to honoring and expressing gratitude to the women who have nurtured and shaped us. On this day, we shower our mothers with love, gifts and sincere gestures. However, some argue that a single day is not enough to truly celebrate and recognize the immeasurable impact of motherhood.

Extend the celebration

Supporters of a month-long celebration propose the idea of Mothering Month. This extended celebration provides an opportunity to recognize the diverse roles and contributions of mothers in our society. This goes beyond the traditional definition of mothers as only biological mothers and includes adoptive mothers, adoptive mothers, stepmothers, and other maternal figures who have played a central role in our lives. By extending the celebration, we can appreciate the vast tapestry of motherhood and the unique journeys each mother takes.

Recognize the journey

Motherhood is a transformative journey, filled with immense joys, challenges and personal growth. By dedicating an entire month to mothers, we are creating a platform to honor their stories, share their wisdom, and foster a sense of community between mothers and those they have influenced. This extended celebration ensures that the efforts and sacrifices of mothers are recognized and appreciated beyond a single day, giving them the recognition they truly deserve.

Adopt both perspectives

While the idea of a month-long celebration may be appealing, it’s important to find a balance. We can maintain the importance of Mother’s Day as a focal point while also allowing time throughout the year to recognize and appreciate mothers. By preserving the essence of Mother’s Day and incorporating continued appreciation, we can create a holistic approach combining a dedicated day of celebration with consistent gratitude throughout the year. This balance allows us to show our appreciation for mothers without diluting the importance of Mother’s Day itself.

Striking a balance between maintaining the importance of Mother’s Day and showing continued appreciation to mothers throughout the year is essential to ensure that mothers feel valued and appreciated on a consistent basis. Here are some suggestions on how we can achieve this balance:

Celebrate Mother’s Day with meaningful gestures

This Mother’s Day, strive to go beyond traditional gifts and gestures. Show your appreciation by spending quality time with your mother, listening to her stories, and expressing gratitude for her love and support. Consider personalized gifts or acts of service that reflect their interests and passions. By making Mother’s Day meaningful and heartfelt, you can maintain its importance while creating a lasting impact.

Express your appreciation all year long

Don’t limit your appreciation for mothers to just one day. Make a habit of expressing gratitude and appreciation to your mother or mother figures throughout the year. This can be done through small acts of kindness, like writing heartfelt notes, sending surprise gifts, or simply expressing your love and gratitude with words. Regularly reminding mothers of their importance in your life can make a significant difference in their well-being and sense of worth.

Create special moments

Designate specific days or occasions throughout the year to honor and celebrate your mother or mother figures. It could be his birthday, anniversary, or any other milestone in his life. Take advantage of these moments to plan special activities or surprises tailored to their preferences and interests. By creating these special moments, you ensure that the celebration of motherhood extends beyond a single day.

Support and recognize other mothers

Extend your appreciation to other mothers in your community and circle of friends. Acknowledge their efforts and achievements as mothers and offer support wherever possible. This might involve volunteering to help with child care, offering a listening ear, or organizing events that bring mothers together. By recognizing and supporting other mothers, you contribute to a culture of continued appreciation and solidarity.

Think about motherhood in everyday conversations:

Incorporate discussions about motherhood and the influence of mothers into everyday conversations. Share stories, memories and lessons learned from your own mother or mother figures. Encourage others to do the same. By keeping motherhood at the forefront of conversations, you ensure that appreciation for mothers remains a constant presence in your life and the lives of those around you.

Remember, the goal is to strike a balance between maintaining the importance of Mother’s Day and showing continued appreciation to mothers throughout the year. By incorporating these suggestions into your routine, you can create a culture of appreciation that extends beyond a single day, while honoring the special significance of Mother’s Day itself.

What does Linda think?

As we honor the anthology and devotion of the women of the waiting room, we remember the immense power and strength that mothers possess. Their love, guidance and unwavering support make us the individuals we become. Whether we choose to celebrate mothers on a specific day or throughout an entire month, the essence remains the same: to honor and appreciate the love, sacrifice and resilience of mothers everywhere. Here is a poem from me to the ladies:

In a waiting room full of strong women,

Their stories are not told, their hearts are a song.

With love in their eyes and grace in their stride,

They carry the burdens of life side by side.

Happy Mother’s Day, to these divine women,

Whose strength and resilience shine forever.

They withstood storms, faced trials and pain,

However, their morale soars, like a golden crane.

In their eyes you will find unspeakable wisdom,

A life of lessons, stories are revealed.

They nourished and guided, with tenderness,

Their love, a beacon, always there.

With gentle hands and words of comfort,

They mend the broken hearts, fulfill the promise.

They wipe away tears, they heal and repair,

Their love knows no limits, it has no end.

In the waiting room they gather,

Sharing laughter, support and love forever.

They uplift each other, empower and inspire each other,

A united brotherhood, their love never tires.

So on this day we honor and worship,

Women in waiting rooms, forever.

Happy Mother’s Day, to these dear souls,

May their love and strength always be close.