What you should know before moving out of your family home

Cost of living budgeting

“Many young adults underestimate the cost of living when they move out. It’s important to create a detailed budget that includes all expenses, from rent to groceries,” says Jane Nanyonga, a financial advisor in Kampala.

Budget planning is crucial when moving out. Rent, utilities, groceries and transportation can add up quickly. For example, renting a one-bedroom apartment in Kampala can cost between Shs300,000 and Shs1,000,000 depending on the location.

“Use budgeting apps or spreadsheets to track your spending. Save some of your income to prepare for unexpected costs such as repairs or medical emergencies,” advises Nanyonga.

Choose the right location

Choosing the right residential area is crucial. In Uganda, urban centers such as Kampala or Entebbe offer a vibrant lifestyle, but can be expensive.

“I chose to live in a suburb of Kampala to save on rent, but my daily commute often takes two hours. “It’s a compromise that I haven’t fully considered,” says Sarah Nantege, a recent graduate.

“Consider the availability of public transport and proximity to work or school,” adds real estate agent Samuel Muwanga. “Sometimes you can save time and transportation costs by spending a little more on rent.”

Understanding rental agreements

Before signing a lease, familiarize yourself with the terms of the lease. Many first-time renters overlook the importance of understanding the deposit, maintenance obligations and lease termination clauses.

“Always read the rental agreement carefully and do not hesitate to ask your landlord to clarify any conditions that seem unclear to you,” emphasizes Muwanga.

Consider reviewing the arrangement with a trusted friend or family member with rental experience. “A second opinion can help you identify potential red flags,” he suggests.

Managing household responsibilities

Living alone means taking on various tasks that were previously shared with family members. From cleaning and cooking to laundry and grocery shopping, the tasks can be overwhelming.

“It wasn’t until I moved out that I realized how much work it was to run a household. I had to create a cleaning schedule and even teach myself how to cook,” says Michael Musinguzi, who moved out of his parents’ house last year.

Meal prep strategies can make cooking easier. “Preparing larger quantities of food can save time and reduce waste,” he notes.

Building a support network

Moving can sometimes feel isolating, especially when you’re in a new area. Building a support network of friends, colleagues or neighbors can make this transition easier.

“A support system can make the transition easier. Attend community events or join local groups to socialize,” suggests Anita Nabukeera, a community psychologist.

“Shortly after moving out, I joined a local sports club. It helped me make friends and feel less lonely,” says Grace Katusiime, who moved from Jinja to Kireka, Kampala.

Navigate local services

It is important to familiarize yourself with local services such as grocery stores, markets, hospitals, and transportation options. Knowing where to find essentials can significantly reduce stress.

“Use local apps for food delivery or transportation services. They are becoming increasingly popular and can save you time,” advises Nanyonga.

It may be helpful to make a list of essential services in your area, including pharmacies, hospitals, and grocery stores. “I had to explore my neighborhood extensively to find the best options,” recalls David Mulumba, who moved to Kampala from a rural area.

Understanding cultural adaptations

When moving to a different community, you must be prepared for cultural adjustments. Each neighborhood in Uganda has its unique customs and social dynamics.

“I moved to a more urban area and had to adapt to different social norms. It was a learning curve, but I learned to appreciate diversity,” remembers Mulumba.

Understanding local traditions and etiquette can help you feel more at home. “I made an effort to learn a few phrases and customs, which helped me bond with my neighbors,” he adds.

Prepare for emergencies

Living independently means being prepared for emergencies. Make sure you have a basic first aid kit and know how to contact emergency services.

“It is advisable to have a financial buffer for unexpected expenses such as medical bills or repairs. Consider saving at least three months of living expenses,” advises Nanyonga.

“Knowing where the nearest hospital is and how to get there can be reassuring,” adds Nabukeera.

Getting used to independence

Moving out of your own home is a big step towards independence. Embrace the freedom, but also recognize the responsibility that comes with it.

“The first few months were hard. I felt overwhelmed by the responsibility, but eventually I learned to value my independence,” says Nantege.

Celebrate your successes, no matter how small, and remember that it’s okay to seek help when you need it. “I often asked my parents for advice, which made me feel less alone,” she adds.

Find your personal space

Creating a personal space that reflects your style can greatly improve your living experience. Take the time to decorate and organize your new home in a way that feels comfortable.

“Personalizing your space can improve your mental well-being. Surround yourself with items that make you happy,” suggests interior designer Doreen Kabibi.

Adding plants, artwork and personal touches can create a cozy atmosphere. “I created a photo wall of memories that motivates me every day,” says Katusiime.

Getting involved in your new community can improve your experience. Attend local events, markets or cultural festivals to feel more connected. “I volunteered with a local NGO, which not only allowed me to give back but also helped me meet new friends,” says Fatima Nambubi, who moved to Kampala from a smaller town.

Interacting with your community can also provide valuable networking opportunities and help you feel more comfortable. Developing Life Skills Living alone is an excellent opportunity to develop essential life skills. From budgeting to time management, these skills will benefit you in the long run.

“Life skills like cooking, budgeting and self-care are crucial for independent living. Take courses or look for online resources to improve these skills,” says Nanyonga. Investing time in learning new skills can increase your confidence and independence. “I started looking at cooking instructions online and now I love trying new recipes,” says Musinguzi.