Does He Like You Or Just Want To Be With You? Check His Kissing Behavior

For an adult woman, dating men is almost inevitable. And for women in love, the biggest question is whether their boyfriend loves them or just wants to sleep with them.

After all, the difference between loving you and sleeping with you is huge. For a woman, it is easy to find a man who wants to sleep with you, but finding a man who loves you is not something that can be found by chance.

But you can tell if your boyfriend loves you or just wants to sleep with you by the way he acts during intimacy.

If a man likes you, he will be happy to chat with you before getting intimate, without going straight to the point.

And someone who loves you will want to know your interests and hobbies, and will be aware of your personality and temperament.

If he wants to have a long term relationship with you, if he really loves you and doesn’t just want to sleep with you, he will be very careful in his communication with you before becoming intimate.

On the other hand, if a man just wants to sleep with you, he won’t have much patience to talk with you before getting intimate.

Even if he is willing to chat, he will probably be very superficial. He will always seem like a smooth talker and won’t really care about your inner thoughts.

You can also tell if a man likes you or just wants to sleep with you by looking at his eyes during intimacy.

After all, the eyes are the window to the soul, so it is through the eyes that one can best judge a person’s inner being.

In an intimate relationship, a man who loves you will look you in the eyes. He will look at you with love, as if he were looking at his most precious treasure.

And a man who loves you will want to understand every subtle change in you when you are intimate, and he will show that he cares about you.

Conversely, if a man makes no eye contact with you when you are intimate and is only focused on his own pleasure, then you have to wonder how much he really cares about you.

Next, watch how he behaves after your intimate intercourse. A man who loves you, who is caring and gentle, will not be satisfied with satisfying his needs before going to sleep or taking a shower.

Instead, he will hold you after having sex, share his thoughts or talk about other things, and he will care about your feelings.

Also, a man who loves you will be very attentive to your feelings during intimacy. If you find that the man you are with is very rough in bed, does violent things to you and does not care about your comfort, only focuses on his own pleasure, then you should consider leaving him.

Because a man who truly loves you, even if he wants to enjoy the pleasure, will not build his own happiness on your unhappiness.

Whether a man loves you or not, his behavior in bed can really tell you everything. If a man really loves you, and not just to sleep with you, he will treat every time you have sex with him as if it were the first time.

If you find that after a long term relationship, the man no longer has passion when you are intimate, and it feels like a chore, that he is just pretending, then you need to rethink your relationship.

A man who loves you, no matter how many times you are intimate, will always feel passionate and grateful, and he will always be excited and cherish it. So when a man becomes indifferent or no longer enjoys being intimate with you, then his feelings for you are probably in trouble.

Moreover, a man who truly loves you, even if his desires are aroused, will take into account your physical condition first. He will not demand that you satisfy him under any circumstances.

And during intimacy, if a man always suggests ways that make you uncomfortable and embarrassed, and demands that you agree, whether you want it or not, then in this case you can be sure that this man is only trying to satisfy his own desires, and does not really love you. This should never happen.

The last thing to do is to see if he compliments or criticizes you when you are intimate. A man who truly loves you, regardless of your physical attributes, will think that you are beautiful.

If a man criticizes your appearance after intimacy, or gets straight to the point during intimacy and never kisses you, then this man probably just wants to release his desires by being intimate with you.

There is a big difference between a man who truly loves you and a man who just wants to satisfy his desires. As long as you pay attention, you will be able to see it in his behavior during intimacy.

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This article was previously published on medium.com.

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