Can a partner be a partner? Expert with banging heart Aussage

On November 28, 2024By Pranco

Berlin. Was not passt, was appropriately authorized. Or not? One expert said his partner had a weld – and it was a tutorial.

“It’s not like there’s any harm if you’re a spazier. I will bring this mantle.” In a short Loriot Sketch with the title “I will now sit here”, the Ehefrau in Mann, who during the whole time they sit in their seats, tells more about their movement. And it is the most penetrating. Brought up Ende Schreit der Ehemann. There is a violation fremdbestimt.

Loriot was like a Komiker ein Meister darin, Alltagsszenen in Beziehungen zu überspitzen – often the successive series, including the series of the Ehepaar, are a whole core. Falling into Partnerships herrscht Unzufriedenheit. It is often the case that the spouse or partner owns it, but it is not possible to prepare a meal. The loss is imminent: There is more than enough. Is the operation even possible if it is your partner’s partner?

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Beziehung: Partner and woolen – so no problem

Diploma-Psychologist Thomas Dürst never shares this illusion: “It is not possible to change your mind – but it is not possible to survive.” The psychotherapist from Berlin concreted, the change in the rule immer of internal heraus stattfindet. “Man can give an impulse and an impulse, eh inner change process beim Gegenüber in Gang zu setzen. If the partner or partner is no longer around, says Dürst.

How do you get to the woman, the partner or the partner who is woolen? My trade is not one particular peculiarity, but another typical taxes in the Beziehung, which is used as support for financing. “Except that you had a conflict in the Beziehungsalltag, no matter how banal it is, who fell into your performance in the house,” says Dürst. Aber auch der Wunsch nach more Verbundenheit and the feeling that the patient’s inner mind experiences with the impulse, the partner and the wollen, erklärt of the psychotherapist.

Thomas Dürst is a certified psychologist and psychological psychotherapist.
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There are many problems and frustrations with the partner

There is a “dilemma” in many cases. “Viele people have high quality and experience as a partner. If this was not accomplished, it would be better Frustration. The automatic mechanism, which is then often set, is: ‘The other thing is different, that’s what happens’, so Dürst.

A gravierender Trugschluss, Dürst summarizes. “Man promotes his own experiences with his partner. If it’s different, it could get even bigger Change pressure I am Raum. It cannot function.“ It is difficult to know your own bed knowledge. It may happen that the consequences are compromised – and the sage gets a little out of hand.

“People who are their partner or their partner in a woolen partner are often not very good at caring for their own beds in their care. In the sense of: Was brauche ich eigentlich, damit ich mich wohler fühle?’, erklärt der Experte. Make sure you can perform the normal operation of the device Self-reflexiaalso who the man is and knows his bed. If you want to give a hint to the partner, or the partner who is woolen partner, you can hide a new Selbstwertgefühl, so Dürst.

Who is the change that is possible?

If the partner no longer focuses directly, it may not be the case that the art of a partnership in a partnership is possible – and that it is ‘a sin of a gemeinsamen of the company with more business in the future’, so der Diploma -psychologist. This process can take some time in Anspruch Nehmen. Brauchten is a matter of its duration Communications processesFirst of all, it is important to know more about itself and the other aspects. Discover the partner information and orientation.

“It’s a good thing, it was a waste, it was good,” explains Thomas Dürst. „That is the status of itself. Aus der eigenen Frustration can be an inner feeling of resentment, Bitterness or passive-aggressive people resist.”

If the problem is affected, it is possible that the problem occurs, but also that there are no more problems. What is the right communication, experts say. “Dabei unbedingt mit Ichstatt mit Du-Botschaften speak, also: ‘I am happy with each other’ says ‘You speak without saying’. When the problem arises, it happens that one’s own shape appears and the shape is taken out of the shape.”

Changes are also possible, both partners individually. Respectfully and respectfully since. If it’s okay. „Wenn I find my speech and a single process in Gang setze, cann of the other Bezug darauf nehmen. became Dadurch two hoursalso that both partners, deutlicher“, declaration of the psychotherapist.

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Partner will never be in common: Was tun?

I found a Schritt who did a few things, but I could say it was possible. It is possible that there is interest in the gegenüber. “Nur so gelingt der Veränderungsprozess in eengemeinsamen Bewusstsein – und nicht von Außen with erhobenem Zeigefinger en der Botschaft ‚Du machst jetzt das, damit es mir gut geht’“, thus Thomas Dürst.

But was a partner or a partner like one of them common changes verwehrt? “Der Partner is interested in what he does,” says the Diploma Psychologist. “If you are not part of the group that comes into the gang, you have to be the right partner.” Dann can last longer if he is very, if he is so knowledgeable.