Family feud erupts when ‘shocked’ bride excludes sister from ceremony over racy outfit

“But this time I’m feeling a little bad because my wedding will be in February 2024 and my sister, who is also one of the bridesmaids, showed me what she plans to wear. I was shocked, to say the least,” said the bride.

“The dress clearly shows that she is not wearing a bra or underwear because it has a slit to her waist and her back and chest are barely covered. I’m uncomfortable with her being around other people, especially my fiancé and his family looking like that.”

The bride decided to give her sister an ultimatum about her outfit.

“I told her that if she doesn’t find a different, more decent dress, she will no longer be one of the bridesmaids and will no longer be invited to my wedding,” the bride wrote.

“She thinks I’m being unfair as I don’t have the right to control what people wear and I also let all the bridesmaids choose whatever design they want as long as they follow the colors I gave them. The color chosen follows the color scheme and that’s fine, but the design makes me feel like it’s not appropriate.

“I don’t want my sister to show my guests, but she called me AH when I disinvited her. Now she and my parents aren’t talking to me. My fiancé said he had no opinion on this and would accept whatever I decided.”

In an overwhelming show of solidarity, the online community rallied behind the bride, recognizing the balance between personal expression and respecting the sanctity of her wedding day.

“And that’s just one of the reasons people run away,” one person began.

“Put your foot down and your sister will no Dress like you’re going to an MTV music awards show – or she won’t be at your wedding. Why you are the damn bride, and in this case you he can Control what your bridal party and even guests wear.

“Even if your parents don’t talk to you (or don’t even show up), you can still get married. And your sister could be disinvited if she doesn’t behave.

“Sister’s dress seems inappropriate (or, at the very least, stylistically conflicting) for the occasion. Especially for someone at the party. I don’t think OP is being irrational here, but her sister and parents sure are,” another commented.

“That dress is completely inappropriate for your wedding. This also seeks a lot of attention, and she is not the main character at your wedding. She should choose something else.

“Just take the princess out of the bridal party drama now. She would be the type to show off a conservative dress and then waltz down the aisle in her underwear,” another user suggested.

“It’s your wedding — it’s about you, not your attention-seeking sister,” commented another.