Women at Sean ‘Diddy’ Combs’ parties had to weigh on scales before entering, alleged party planner

When Sean “Diddy” Combs talking about are infamous partieshe said that women’s attendance was one of the most important factors for success. People fought to get on the guest list at Diddy’s parties, and it was reportedly not that easy to get through the door. A party planner who worked with Diddy claimed that women had to weigh less than 140 pounds to attend.

Sean ‘Diddy’ Combs reportedly wanted the women at his parties to be under a certain weight

Diddy worked with a party planner in the early 2000s. She claimed that part of her job was to ensure that the women who enter his events were young and thin. She had a scale in her car to weigh if she thought it was necessary.

“If it were necessary, we would make a trade-off,” the party planner told the newspaper New York Post. “The girls had to be young and pretty, so I always had a scale on hand in case I wanted to be sure. The number was 140 pounds, but if a girl was very tall there was a bit of discretion involved.

Even if the women were thin enough, there was no guarantee they would get in. They had to look a certain way.

“No fainting, no cellulite. Not overly pierced or tattooed. No short hair,” the party planner said. “And the girls had to be young and pretty.”

They were also reportedly required to dress according to his standards.

‘No pants. No jeans. No flat shoes. Each girl had to wear a party dress, preferably very short, just enough to cover her buttocks, but no longer than mid-thigh. Cleavage visible. And they all had to wear stilettos. There was no exception: high stilettos.”

They reportedly did not ask the ages of those present

Although there were many rules that women at his parties had to follow, they reportedly did not have to be of legal age.

“It was ‘don’t ask, don’t tell,’” the party planner said. “I was very young at the time and to be honest I thought we didn’t ask their age because of the liquor laws.”

She added that until the recent allegations, she had no idea what was happening at the parties.

“I never stayed with the Freak Offs and had no idea that these girls were expected to have sex with people.”

Sean “Diddy” Combs talked about how he got women to attend his parties

While talking about his parties, Diddy said that having enough women was the most important thing he could do to prepare.

“This is what you have to do,” Diddy continued Late night with Conan O’Brien in 2002, per Vibe magazine. “Women. Beautiful women of course. Beautiful men for the ladies of course… You have to give the ladies what they need too. Take care of your women. You can’t force the situation.”

He shared what he did to get women to stay.

“We need alcohol,” he said. ‘You need some water. I don’t know if guys have noticed, but a lot of ladies drink water at parties. So if you don’t have what they need, they leave. I have to keep them there. You need locks on the doors…It’s a little kinky, but you know…rock with me.

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